Motherhood changed your life. It also changed your dating math. That does not mean marriage is off the table—but pretending the additional variables do not exist will not put a ring on your finger.

Are You a Baby Mama? Come Here. is the funny, unapologetically honest guide for single mothers who want a husband—not another man who enjoys their body, eats their groceries, borrows their charger, and disappears whenever responsibility clears its throat.

Inside, you will learn:

• Why some men will not date single mothers—and why arguing with them is a waste of lip gloss

• How to recognize the difference between sexual attention and genuine blended-family intention

• Why boundaries with the child’s father must exist before the boyfriend

• When a man should meet your child and what he must demonstrate first

• How to answer a serious man’s legitimate concerns with evidence instead of attitude

• Why being willing to play stepfather does not automatically make a man worthy

• How to create room for the husband and household you say you want

• How to find the man who wants the whole package—not merely the child-free weekends

This book will not flatter you into wasting another five years. It will help you face reality, correct what you can, protect your child, improve your judgment, and identify the marriage-minded man whose values, character, and future genuinely fit your life.

Your dating pool may be smaller.

Smaller is not empty. Smaller means filtered.

Come here, Baby Mama. We need to talk.